LAW OF NATURE
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SEX VS COHABITATION VS MARRIAGE VS LIVE-IN-STATUS
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SOCIO-MEDICO-LEGAL STATUS
MALICE/ COMMENTS TOWARDS NONE
Ever since the creation ADAM & EVE by GOD, the Supreme Unique Artist Creator of Humanity on this Earth there has been three causes for Quarrels/fights/wars on this Earth by our so-called civilized Society and the said causes are (1) ZAR (Wealth) (2) ZAMEEN (Property) and (3) JOHRU (Woman) and the said three causes are still there and shall continue to be there till the Humanity exists on this Earth. In our religious scriptures there is a mention of 84 Lakh Yonies that is Birds, Animals, Insects, reptiles etc and out of those Yonies Human beings are one of them and man is called a social animal and the man/woman is the only living being who is dependent on others right from his birth to his death. God has created the Universe as Couples such as Day & Night, Sweet & Sore , Good & Bad Water & Fire, Earth & Sky MALE & FEMALE but NOT Husband & Wife and except human beings this Socio-Legal contract does not exist among any other species such as among Birds, Animals, Insects, Reptiles and so on although all indulge in Sex, Cohabit and produce children and take care of their young one’s till they are able to find food for themselves and there is no relationship as Husband & wife followed by its complications of family set up, partition of family, inheritance of assets after death and/or in short on question of quarrels/fights/ wars on account of the three causes mentioned above. All are living life and enjoying it without any crime such as Rape, Molestation, teasing, Stalked, Theft, Murder, Robbery, Roadrage and NO litigation hence no Courts of Law and the Police. If all others can live life peacefully WHY can’t live the Human Beings with all the wisdom and infrastructure as Legislative, Executive and Judiciary and other assisting agencies? It is a matter to be PONDERED OVER by people concerned in a Social set up WHETHER THE SOCIAL SET UP HAS FAILED TO DELIVER THE DESIRED RELIEF TO THE HUMANITY?
SEX : Means a Cohesion, Sexual intercourse a biological Medicare natural act between a male and a female without establishing any social relationship God has created living beings with Sex Organs with a specific purpose and these cannot be useless and unwarranted. It is medically proven fact that it is a biological need of every human being after a certain age without which the person shall go mad or act abnormal and each one learns it without any Sex Education, ridiculous and Infructous rather damaging and harmful prompting of sex among teenagers in schools. It’s not only for the Human Beings but all other living beings Birds and Animals are doing it without any problem. All the problems pertaining to Sex are man made insolvable and shall continue to be so whatsoever the Social setup or the Courts of Law may do. Sex is being practiced between adults either openly and/or clandestinely without any age limitations from times immemorial and shall continue to be practiced under any circumstances since it is a Natural phenomenon well known to each and every person whether for and/or against sex whether they openly admit it or not but it is a reality and the reality never dies even being denied loudly by words of mouth. You can never rock the boat. There is cohabitation among adults irrespective of age factor whether recognized or not is a Reality Like death after birth. The term now a days used among media as ‘honour killings’ is a proof of it apart from other media reported matters among elderly persons including among close relations and friends and also where Politicians, Bureaucrats, and the protectors like Police Officers are involved. In such sex relationships there is no question of maintenance u/s 125 CrPC and/or of legal heirs and/or right to inherit any share in the assets of the person involved. Such a consensual sex is for pleasure which both the partners share and is like a Prayer or love for the sake of love only since no monetary consideration is involved which may be termed as a business and/or a profession. Through ordinary sex man is born but through Meditative sex GOD is born. I quote below some examples from religious scriptures as of pure innocent sex/Love without lust which I have termed as ‘Meditative Sex’ in my authored book ‘WHY ONLY MAN IS IN DISTRESS’ and children born out of such sexual cohabitation are Godly personalities since it is all as per the Law of Nature and the popular names are as follows:
Lord Jesus son of Marry, the virgin;
Hanuman, of Ramayana, son of Anjani, Pavan putra Hanuman;
Karan of Mahabharta, son of Kunti, the virgin
COHABITATION VS MARRIAGE
Cohabit is to dwell together as husband and wife as permanent partners for sexual intercourse for the socio-medico-legal purposes and the partners enter into an agreement either written expressed or implied called socio-legal contract and as such they submit their partnership/relationship to the Law enacted by the Legislature of the land where questions of legal heirs, right to inherit any share in the property come into play and the partners are obliged to honour the terms of the said socio-legal contract the violation of which comes with the preview scope and jurisdiction of the Law of the Land. The emphases is being knowingly ‘permanent partners’ by WILL, intention, purpose, action and indeed. Nothing short of it. Male and Female boyfriend and girlfriend without Will and intention to dwell together as husband and wife either in some Home, House and/or in a Hotel room without intending to be husband and wife although cohabiting do not become husband and wife mere by staying together because of some reasons of mutual interest.
Institution of Marriage has failed to fulfill its desired purpose because in arranged marriages the boy and the girl neither knowingly, intentionally, willfully nor for a purpose and action indeed decided to dwell together to set up a family for producing children with known responsibility. In arranged marriages the decision is mainly of the parents while the boy and the girl just act as actors to perform as per the directions of the Director parents. Because there was no known will and intention on the part of the partners to the marriage we find divorce matters are increasing in the Courts and the law is also misinterpreted and misconceived for obvious purposes and there is absence of Harmony which spells disharmony precursor to the cause of agony and the unity & integrity of the sweet homes is being destroyed.
LIVE-IN-STATUS
At the outset question arises Why people opt for a Live-in-Status? Because they feel their individual freedom has been curtailed. They were born free but find themselves in chains which are intolerable. They want of live life according to their own will without any if’s and but’s and/or monitoring whatsoever. Freedom is one’s birth right.
Each Individual is Unique in all respects and the Life is only for once and it must be enjoyed fully including in performing biological-medico requirement of performing sexual intercourse between two adult male and female friends, not willing partners in life, on the basis of WILL and INTENTION to ‘walk in and walk out’ without creating any obligations, rights and duties with regard to any sort of property just to enjoy life for the sake of enjoying life to share Love and affection. Lord Jesus has said “LOVE IS GOD” It is a PRAYER. GOD is not for sale as a business commodity for a consideration either in cash or in kind, paid or promised, part paid or part promised. Love is a sacred exchange of emotions, sentiments regards ,affections, feelings, trust and belief in some one and it must be out of sweet will not for any fear or favour. Social relationship is the birth right of a person and no encumbrances need be construed to the personal freedom of any individual in choosing and maintaining such relationships.. We do not know from where we came alone in this World and we also do not know after death we alone shall go to which place. Suppose after birth we were abandoned in some forest near the Sea left to ourselves what Name, religion, caste and/or nationality we shall acquire. Birds, Animals and other species have no names, religions, castes etc but they all do sexual intercourse after attaining their age of puberty, produce children, take care of them till they are able to find food and shelter for themselves and there after they don’t’ care for relationships. They all live a natural life without establishing relationships of any kind. No marriage, no heir ship, no inheritance and share because the consensual partners just walk into each others lives by will and consent and walk out at will without any obligations and/or regrets. If Birds and Animals can live without marriage why not human beings? Man too is a social animal. If the relationship of Live-in-status for a considerable time is to be construed as Marriage I am afraid there shall be avoidable long drawn litigations and criminal activities shall be more making the life as a hell on earth and the Courts of Law shall be construed as abettors to the crime and unhappiness in life. The following crimes are apprehended:-
(1) Apprehension of breach of peace;
(2) Attempt to murder;
(3) Attempt to kidnapping;
(4) Character assassination
(5) Criminal assault
(6) Fabrication of false Wills and other documents regarding settlement of property and assets, False rent deeds and/or numerous other such things since the mind of the offenders is fertile, sharp to device means than the codified, outdated and rigid law contained in the Law Books and followed by the Courts of Law of the land.
If Live-in- status is to be construed or deemed as a marriage Whether the close association togetherness and Living-in status and till date associated in the believers of Bhagwan Krishna and Radha be deemed amounting to marriage for all the encumbrances attached thereto? The devotees so often wish each other as ‘Jai Radha Krishna’ and
The plausible proposition is to recognize the live-in status in its status Quo position and allow good friends to share the Love and affection without burdening them with legalities following the Supreme Law of Nature in the best interest of Humanity.
(R.N.Prabhakar)
Advocate
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